C-section Vs Natural Birth

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C-section Vs Natural Birth
Listing #36808 by Shiku K on 25-May-2010 . Viewed 1541 times . Replied to 141 times . Printed 29 times . Favorited 1 times

Ladies,especially,how would you prefer to deliver,and for those who already have,..your 2cents?

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›› leila 25-May-2010, reply_298258
I would prefer natural but naskia hao nurse wako na matusi kibao kweli

›› Shiku K 25-May-2010, reply_298264
Matusi??

›› kigaz 25-May-2010, reply_298265
Madame mna shida, anyway, I think natural is better for women as they won't be having to hide their scars when swim-costumed, or any style/situation that will have to reveal the tummy...

›› maisie 25-May-2010, reply_298268
Alwaiz natural. Fast to heal n no scars left

›› supu 25-May-2010, reply_298274
i had mine the natural way and i wouldnt have it any other way unless its an emergency..."the pain is too much but its worth it why lie..."

›› ndingoingo 25-May-2010, reply_298276
c-section doesnt expand the size of the hole...ooops hadn't seen its directed to ladies, Sorry

›› Shiku K 25-May-2010, reply_298283
@kigaz,there are ways to contend with scars nowadays
@maisie,doesnt birthing naturally expand and loosen vaginal muscles?

›› Shiku K 25-May-2010, reply_298289
@supu,someone compared the pain to that of a tooth ache,true?
@ndingoingo si bora una kitu ya kusema

›› supu 25-May-2010, reply_298296
@Shiku..personally, it think the pain is more than anything i have ever experienced..its intense and its really really painful...OMG.. a toothache you can take some painkillers!!!!!.

›› supu 25-May-2010, reply_298297
@shiks... at one point the pain got sooo bad i opted for epidural..the rest is histrory

@Ndingo... its a muscle.....it gets tighter btw

›› leila 25-May-2010, reply_298298
ati u compare dat pain to tooth ache, ngoja upate mimba ukazae u will neva compare dat pain to any other known pain, it is pain dat u av neva experienced eva since u wa born, ona mtoto mchanga alivyo n imagine akipita in your thing, wat sort of pain will u feel, dat of a tooth ache?

›› Shiku K 25-May-2010, reply_298301
@supu,gai!,pain ya labour ama the actual popping?

›› afriQDef 25-May-2010, reply_298302
...i work wit this chick, she's had all her three kids via c-section and says ati its coz hataki ku-expand na huko chini...sijui ukweli wa hiyo maneno

›› Shiku K 25-May-2010, reply_298308
@leila,nimesema someone.meaning ni hearsay.
Wewe ni nurse kwani?

›› mastersdiploma 25-May-2010, reply_298312
I was there during the entire process when my wife delivered a baby boy. The pain was mob but u shud have seen the smile after she saw the baby. All the pain was dissapeared!

›› supu 25-May-2010, reply_298318
@Afri..thats what i call bull shit......its a muscle..it gets back to shape....

@shiku.. the pain..ok, personally i didnt feel the popping since i was numb from waist down but after-wards, sitting down was a prob....gal, the pain is unbearable..woooooiiiiii.....but worth it why lie...

›› Shiku K 25-May-2010, reply_298320
@supu,i skia it fikas a point they cant give you an epidural

›› leila 25-May-2010, reply_298322
@Shiku...am not a nurse, just wanted u to imagine mtoto akitoka n pucii inapasuka mtoi atoke, wat kind of pain will dat b, obviously not that of a tooth ache

›› Shiku K 25-May-2010, reply_298323
:-(

›› kigaz 25-May-2010, reply_298332
@leila, there is an injection they give to relieve pain, so a woman feels nothing.

›› afriQDef 25-May-2010, reply_298335
@supu ..thanks atleast that clears it...sm pple can actually traumatize u wit funny tales
@masters...i'm proud of yu

›› supu 25-May-2010, reply_298338
@Shiku... ok, this is my case... i was 2 weeks over-due and had to be induced, the pain became unbearable, i started with 'air & gas' but i got drunk but that didnt take the pain, i went to morphine but then, i started vomiting, finally the doc decided to put me on 'epidurall' since the labour was long...gal... i can not describe the pain in words, you have to go through it to understand....it depends on the health of the mother....

›› Shiku K 25-May-2010, reply_298344
I can withstand pain but not that kind i cant,...you said it depends on the health of the mother,in your case?

›› mumbo 25-May-2010, reply_298356
Hi @supu and @shiks
I believe each mode has its own advantages but I have to say it is nice to have your woman shout at you and call you all those names ukimsugua mgongo. That is sth you will never experience as a man if she gets c-section. Oh those of you who think it damages p----: unless the delivery was mismanaged and she does not exercise that muscle..you may not even notice the difference.

›› Ms. Kitheremende 25-May-2010, reply_298357
CS anytime. About scarring- they have a way of making a horizontal incision instead of a vertical one.

It does not leave any noticeable scar BUT it also means that you will never be able to deliver normally again- all your subsequent kids will have to be delivered by CS.

And most importantly I get to maintain my tight ninii..

›› supu 25-May-2010, reply_298358
@Shiku..i was healthy and the docs thought i was gonna go bonkers...Sweeerie...the moment i saw my child, i screamed like' i want another one' the docs just laughed...its worth it and i thank God.....

@kigaz..it wears out....

›› Ms. Kitheremende 25-May-2010, reply_298359
@AfriQDef- don't be so sure- I've been personally advised by a lady with 3 kids delivered normally that it leaves your thing big! I won't go into the graphic details here

›› supu 25-May-2010, reply_298365
@ms. kithe..'advised by a lady'? sisemi kitu.. re-read @mumbos comment....

›› Shiku K 25-May-2010, reply_298370
@mumbo,awww thats so sweet of you,:-)
And about the expanding,i think it varies from woman to woman,..

›› supu 25-May-2010, reply_298371
@Afri...the best thing is to experience it yourself otherwise, people's tales can traumatize you forever....

@mumbo..you are spot on....

›› mumbo 25-May-2010, reply_298375
@ Kitheremende-I told you to change that name or this is a fake one
Why dont you leave the issue of size of your nini as you call it to Men. I believe only men can tell the difference accurately. If you want a honest opinion ask a gynecologist who does not run a c-section business(yes it is a business coz it makes the gynecologist more money)

›› Shiku K 25-May-2010, reply_298378
@ms.kitheremende,
Nowadays they dont do the vertical incision,..they do the horizontal one,hapo tu just above your bikini line and believe you me the scar is there,quite noticeable,saw a friends once.

›› Shiku K 25-May-2010, reply_298385
@supu,do you want another child?

›› Ms. Kitheremende 25-May-2010, reply_298392
@supu- of course not everyone can go for a CS. Since I don't have kids yet I can only depend on what I'm told by those who have had them, like the above lady...
@Mumbo- it's my thing- y should I leave it to men? The same men are the ones who start hanya-ing using that excuse!
@Shiku k- thanx for the info

›› mumbo 25-May-2010, reply_298395
@shiks the delivery process is slightly more complicated than just expanding of the vaginal canal. BTW my kids have such big heads and for that reason I respect the mum. Hehhehe

›› supu 25-May-2010, reply_298398
@Shiku..definitely yes....

@Ms.. try and not rely on hearsay... plus if you are worried about the size, you can always, ask them to 'shona' it before they let you go...

›› Shiku K 25-May-2010, reply_298399
Perhaps it depends on your age too...

›› Shiku K 25-May-2010, reply_298406
Mumbo enyewe mad respect.

›› The King 25-May-2010, reply_298408
c-section isnt for everyone and if u do it severally doctors will advise you to stop having kids ...3 cs is the maximum and the risks to the baby is greater depending on foetal position ...musijidanganye natural is best take it from me

as for p---- size its a muscle it contracts back..if p---- expansion is what u gals fear then stop having sex ...as that is the biggest expander of the ninii .after birth the muscles contract esp with the aid of warm water

listen to supu not the vinuka mkojo like akina leila who have no idea about gynaecology

›› EmKei 25-May-2010, reply_298412
Ladies, dont go for CS as a choice. Actually normal delivery without episiotomy is the best approach. Nature is always right and i know those who go the natural method w/o episiotomy heal faster that those who go for natural and episiotomy while those who prefer CS take a long time to heal.

About labour pain, it all depends on the duration of birth and the flexibility of the mother. Those women who are active tend to give birth faster and the labour pain is intense but short. The lazy women and the fat ones will generally have long labour and it can be a very traumatizing experience. Supu can attest to this. CS is the easiest option but not really the best.

About the change of the birth canal, contrary to popular belief, those women who give birth naturally w/o episiotomy will heal and return to normal tightness in under a month regardless of whether they teared or not. A few stitches will sort the tear and it heals in under 2 weeks. Those who use episiotomy take a bit longer to heal but it returns back to normal though some will normally experience a burning sensation during sex in the first few months.

More on this later.

›› zuqka 25-May-2010, reply_298416
hello galz, @shiku, supu, kitheremende..i got my baby naturally..thing is i got very bad tears in my vaginal canal and my perineum but they shonad it really well..i didnt have sex again for like two years coz i was afraid the stitches inside will rip ...

›› EmKei 25-May-2010, reply_298418
@mumbo, the head of the baby is a miraculous design. The skull is able to compress and bend as the head goes through the birth canal....of course once delivered the head will assume the normal rounded (well some dudes have other shapes) shape and the malleability dissapears with aging.

›› mumbo 25-May-2010, reply_298419
@kith infidelity has nothing to do with the tighness of the p----. We use that as an excuse to make the woman guilty!

›› Shiku K 25-May-2010, reply_298421
@king,
Thanks for the info,...do you have kids too??

›› Shiku K 25-May-2010, reply_298423
@emkei,resident doc,at least i'm so much wiser than i was...and there is also the issue of vaginal rejuvination...how reliable is it?

›› The Director 25-May-2010, reply_298425
Go for natural birth unless ya cervix is small(heard it be4?). Each of them have pros and cons, but nothing beats the natural way!

›› wamum-goldfish 25-May-2010, reply_298432
@zuqka, :-(( kwani the baby was biiig. pole lakini
@supu, kama ni D wako, then pia mimi nitapata sunest
@emkei, u jaz me !! pliz tell me mo.

›› mumbo 25-May-2010, reply_298434
@EmKei true that! BTW where did our women get the idea that the size of their vagina changes if they deliver naturally? I realize that Gyns and midwifes prefer episiotomy to avoid uncontrolled tearing and to accelerate delivery especially when there is prolonged labor.
Hi @zuqka hangover imeisha?

›› supu 25-May-2010, reply_298435
@Emkei.....niiicee though i beg to disagree on "The lazy women and the fat ones will generally have long labour and it can be a very traumatizing experience"..i happen to be a very active person, very athletic and very slim indeed and during my pregnancy, i was full of energy esp the 'nesting' month...my 2 cents is, it depends from one woman to the other...but that mambo jambo of p---- expanding is bull shit...

›› EmKei 25-May-2010, reply_298436
@Shiku, female cosmetic surgical procedures that you have alluded to are alright. They are not really necessary but i guess just like face lift or boob jobs they make some women more confident of their bodies. Labiaplasty costs money though.

›› leila 25-May-2010, reply_298438
@kingkenny...unasema nini wewe nusu makende?

›› zuqka 25-May-2010, reply_298439
@wamum..he wasnt that big, he was actually under 3kgs, i guess he had a big head, or my vaginal canal is too tight..

›› mumbo 25-May-2010, reply_298440
BTW are these ladies paying for consultation?

›› zuqka 25-May-2010, reply_298443
@mumbo...niko poa sasa, thanks...

›› Ms. Kitheremende 25-May-2010, reply_298448
@zuqka: wah, pole sana! I hope u recovered fully!

›› EmKei 25-May-2010, reply_298449
@zupka, had they done episiotomy? I suspect so.

@supu, of course different people will respond differently. Everyone is unique. I should have said in most cases. Ii apologise.

›› mumbo 25-May-2010, reply_298452
@zuqka or you were too tense. Next time have that bugger saying all those sweet nothings he was saying as he planted his seed!

›› mumbo 25-May-2010, reply_298458
@king there is someone who is daring you to prove your makende!
@leila did you know that the nature of insults say a lot about the subconscious?

›› wamum-goldfish 25-May-2010, reply_298459
nimeshtuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuka !!!!!
and the way am looking forward to have one

›› The King 25-May-2010, reply_298460
@leila

Kids corner ni paleee....unapaona? sasa go play with your barbie dolls there and rememba little kids shld b seen and not heard

›› zuqka 25-May-2010, reply_298461
@kith, yeah i recovered fully, kwanza i felt like a virgin the next time i had sex..
@emkei..they refused to give me epidural coz i was fully dilated and the water hadn't broken yet,..@mumbo..the dirty bastard was away on "business"

›› Sahau 25-May-2010, reply_298463
@Kithe, I will only answer yours. It does NOT interfere with your nini. If your nini was big it will remain big. If it was small it will remain so. I am a man I will tell you that with authority of experience.

›› Shiku K 25-May-2010, reply_298464
@zuqka,sasa!,must have really hurt,i am just wondering when my time comes what i'll do

›› The King 25-May-2010, reply_298466
@shix

2 beautiful gals the pride and joy of my existence...nothing beats father/mother hood usiskie kitu

›› Ms. Kitheremende 25-May-2010, reply_298468
@Sahau and all: I tentatively believe you.. I am now back to 60:40 in favour of normal delivery pending some further consultations

›› The King 25-May-2010, reply_298470
@mumbo

@leila did you know that the nature of insults say a lot about the subconscious?

couldnt have put it beta myself..how do u prove anything to someone still in ''pig tails''

›› kedo 25-May-2010, reply_298471
@supus, now you see why I value you, who could do that if not you? I bow in respect.
@mumbo, during labour you can be accused of all sorts of things, be called all the names, I tell you, it is crazy you'd not like doing a season 2
@kitheremende, believe me, once a hanya always a hanya, who told you that your man is sticking to you beacuse you are tight? ask yourself tighter than who? how the hell does he know that others are not like yours? why do ppl katia married women with kids? jipe wazo.
@EmKei, some good information there, the natural way is the best way, nature works well with its tools ujuaji wetu ndiyo taabu.

›› Shiku K 25-May-2010, reply_298472
Ati away on 'business'...alafu u kaziad him for 2years,how did he manage??
@zuqka

›› mumbo 25-May-2010, reply_298477
Yaani @Wamum haujawahi?

›› zuqka 25-May-2010, reply_298479
@shiku darling,it hurt reaally bad especially the stitching part..to be honest i cant really remember how it felt exactly, coz i kinda forgot..its so natural you wont need to be told to do anything..it just happens..kwani how do animals give birth and they don't even have any knowledge on child birth???if i did it, trust me you will do it..

›› Shiku K 25-May-2010, reply_298481
Haija,wamum i thought u had a baby,...dunno why

›› mumbo 25-May-2010, reply_298485
@kedo I did other seasons!! I remember she told me that she will never even look at my d---! Then when I pretended I a was insulted she sternly asked..where do you think you are going?

›› kedo 25-May-2010, reply_298486
@wamum ati nini? how have you been anyway, habari ya tour?

›› zuqka 25-May-2010, reply_298487
@shiku..we broke up when he came back from "business"(another days story)..it was someone else..he couldn't believe i had given birth naturally..i was really tight ;-)

›› leila 25-May-2010, reply_298491
@mumbo...who had started insulting da otha?
@kingkenny.....has da maid changed ua pampers yet? didnt av time to come n change u lunchtime,

›› kedo 25-May-2010, reply_298492
@mumbo, hehehehe dont say, there is a time I was even told to go take out everything that belongs to me in my own house na niende kabisa, akitoka hosi asinipate and at that time niko na yeye,
there is this one lady who walked to me naked asking me to show her the restroom man it is call the Labor Drama, the funny thing you can only laugh at them aftrewards.

›› Shiku K 25-May-2010, reply_298494
@zuqka,
:-(dang!!sowie bowt that,...
But on the bright side,you were/are tight now.That gives me hope:-)

›› wamum-goldfish 25-May-2010, reply_298495
@zuqka, ngai !! u wnt to tell me u dnt go back to the status quo, aaaiiii. pliz tell me
@kedo. antie, amor....
@mumbo, soonest :-))

›› The King 25-May-2010, reply_298496
@leila

sawa lets not spoil a beautiful listing

›› leila 25-May-2010, reply_298502
@kingkenny....sawa, peace. gud afternoon

›› Shiku K 25-May-2010, reply_298506
Gai,alafu sasa kama ni twins!

›› supu 25-May-2010, reply_298507
@wamum...thats is my joy and pride

@kedo...hugs

@Zuqka....i feel you gal, though i know just like me, the pain was worth it...i was worried as well the next time i had sex but surprisingly, he couldnt get in... it was like i was a virgin...

›› Shiku K 25-May-2010, reply_298512
Enyewe mad respect to y'all who've had babies,alafu kumlea tena si ati ni kazi rahisi.

›› kedo 25-May-2010, reply_298513
@wamum, you know you always amaze me? I'll get to know more, ngojea tu. BTW you know yours is going to be double D?
@Kings and Leila, I like tha spirit, great listers.
Supu, hugs back to you my dear and mwahest!

›› supu 25-May-2010, reply_298514
@Shiks..haaaaa.. njia ni ile ile ata kama ni twins.....'gal, you need to experience it first hand to understand'

@wamum.. honey pie, i will be there ti hold your hand, and you can call me all the names you wish...

›› The King 25-May-2010, reply_298516
@shiku

imagine there is a swahili saying that goes

''kuzaa sio kazi kulea ndio kazi''

›› zuqka 25-May-2010, reply_298518
@wamum..it depends on how you take care of yourself after delivery..ama what do u mean??@supu...being a mum is my greatest achievement so far..i didnt think i could do it.until i did it..

›› supu 25-May-2010, reply_298519
@Shiku..kuzaa ni rahisi kuliko kulea....lolest....bringing up a kid is the toughest job there is..(did i hear an amen somewhere?)

›› mumbo 25-May-2010, reply_298522
@wamum I am impressed!! I believe this @kedo is thatching the roof well na nyumba haijainama!
BTW I think the extreme pain makes the women psychotic.The last one nilitupwa nje ati I am making her more concious and thus delaying the progression. Nikaenda kula samaki nearby(I was hungry) and hata kabla sijamaliza ananipigi kuniambi amezaa!
Now that i have retired it is hilarious and we joke about it.

›› The King 25-May-2010, reply_298524
amen2supu

with the proviso that its also the most rewarding xperience

›› Shiku K 25-May-2010, reply_298525
@king,
Yeah,i've heard that one,apparently everything you made your mother go through, your kids will make you go through.
I pity me.:-(

›› supu 25-May-2010, reply_298528
oooh shit..if that is true @Shiku..am in trouble....

›› Shiku K 25-May-2010, reply_298532
Heh!supu,wacha afike 16 utaitana,...

›› wamum-goldfish 25-May-2010, reply_298534
@shiks, i dont thnk its a big issue, picture ur granny's life , am sure she had/has 15 kids....halaaaafu !!!! :-))
@zuqka, for tht i kno, enaf kegel ex, am googlin videos on child birth..woloo!!
@kedo, ithinade, anyway sooner or later am gonna surprise u
@supu, woooi ope u will be thea to rub ma back, and tell me ''it will be aaaalrty :-)

›› zuqka 25-May-2010, reply_298536
@shiku..am also going to have it rough.i was really mean to my mum..when i gave birth i apologised to her for putting her through all that trouble..now i understand exactly how i made her feel :-( i still apologise every time i talk to her.

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